Join me as I guest star on my friend Xander’s project & podcast — Held Together! 

Register on Xander’s Eventbrite Page by clicking here!

Held Together is behind-the-scenes look at how Xander Peer Keller has built, sustained, and been shaped by their CareWeb.

In this Held Together, we will talk about the queerly serendiptious way they met, fell in love, shapeshifted through the different iterations of their relationship, and navigated inter-abled relating. We will talk about finding our queer, nonbinary selves, "de-escalating" relationships (or rather...finding the right shape for them when gushing love doesn't always mean sex), and the magic that connects us.

More about Xander:

Xander Peer Keller (they/them) is a speaker, writer, facilitator, and consultant exploring disability, neurodivergence, chronic illness, and queerness. Their work reimagines care, community, and creativity, showing how interdependence is a source of power rather than weakness. Living with chronic pain since childhood, they once pushed through at great cost—until collapse led them back to their body, their needs, and the power of collective care. Now, they create spaces where honesty, grief, and joy can coexist, where disabled and neurodivergent people are fully seen in both their struggles and their magic. Through storytelling, teaching, and advocacy, Xander invites others to imagine expansive ways to live, connect, and thrive—together.